Busy dreaming nowadays...

Well, don't be alarmed. I haven't been dreaming during office hours. Instead, I've been having dreams repeatedly these 2 weeks. Actually, it's not a good thing to dream at night. A person ends up feeling tired the next day.

Let me share with you the dreams I had.

The first dream (Last Friday)
I went backpacking with my lao gong at a foreign country. We were lost and couldn't find our hostel. I remembered this feeling of despair during the dream while we searched all over the country for the hostel. I even called home to my mom to ask for directions (obviously, not logical since she has a worse direction sense than me). She wasn't helpful at all and told me to mind my own business (and not keep asking stupid questions).

So... we searched and searched and searched and FINALLY, we found the hostel.

We saw this lady sitting beside a cashier and approached her to check if its the right place. I remembered that I liked the hostel on first sight. Why? There were rows and rows of snacks at the front. The lady pointed to some houses behind the rows and rows of snacks. Those houses were supposed to be the hostel that we were looking for.

The second dream (Yesterday)
I was in my room with my lao gong, studying. I usually put the temperature of the air-con at 22 degrees celcius. So that day, I also put it at 22 degrees celcius.

After some time, we felt really hot! I went to check the temperature (using the aircon control not a thermometer) and it showed 1,000 degrees celcius. No wonder it was so hot. (Btw, its not logical to only detect heat at 1,000 degrees celcius)

I lowered the temperature back to 22 degrees celcius. We tried experimenting by waiting for a few minutes. Lo and behold, the temperature went up to 100 degrees celcius!

I then quickly ran to tell my dad that the aircon is spoilt and to get a repairman.

The third dream (Yesterday)
Well, the third dream drifted in right after the second dream.

I remembered my dad was holding a letter, shivering. I was wondering what was the matter and saw him pointing to a word on the letter: 鬼(Chinese word for ghost).

He then quickly ran to my neighbour's house (a Malay priest) (Not logical since my neighbour is an Indian) and begged him to get rid of the word.

So me and my dad sat in front of the neighbour and he chanted for a long long time.

I was still wondering what happened?!

Then after a long period of chanting, the word disappeared from the letter and my dad was happy again.

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I'm hoping to have a good night's sleep tonight.

Happy Rabbit Year!!!

Hope my readers enjoyed the 4 days as much as I did. This year was a different Chinese New Year experience for myself. Even though it seemed to be busier, but it's definitely more fulfilling than the past experiences.

1. I highlighted my hair red for the occasion. One thing about the hair dye job that I disliked was that the colour ran for 1 week plus. It really sucks wrapping my shoulders with a towel in order to prevent my clothes from becoming pink.

2. I've long envied people with big families that maintain close relationships. The time I spent during Chinese New Year visiting the extended family on my lao gong's side, was a fulfilling one. Sometimes, people always think that the grass on the other side is always green. From the perspective of someone with a small family background, big extended families exude warmth and vibrance. On the flip side of the coin, some others may think that so much visiting is a hassle.

3. This must be the only year I managed to keep awake until 12am on "chu xi". I think it must be because I am out of audit!!!! Or was it because of the excitement of the Chinese New Year that lies ahead of me?

4. I managed to catch a movie "Homecoming" over the weekend as well. My mom is a big fan of Jack Neo. (It's not affected by his scandal at all). It's just an average movie. Nothing spectacular. It's just a local production with jokes tailored for the everyday uncle and auntie in Singapore.

5. I'm glad my maternal grandma recognised me this year. At first, she didn't recognise me and reacted badly to me. But later, she managed to realise it's the child she once raised. And when I left, she was smiling happily.

Isn't it sad that everyone has to go through the life process of aging, sickness other than happiness and birth of new life?

Having said the above, I wish all my readers a Happy Chinese New Year...

And please enjoy the remaining 2 hours of Sunday~

Valentine this year?

It's not new in the news that the number of Singaporeans who remain single is increasing. Even in the year 2009, the percentage of males remaining single is 42% and 30% for females (Source: http://www.singstat.gov.sg/stats/themes/people/popinbrief2010.pdf). I think that the best time to get hitched is during university days. After a person enters into workforce, it's really difficult to meet new people. In addition, there is very little time to date while working. (Not to mention, I was previously an auditor with absurdly long hours).


Many a times, I have been asked, where can girls meet new guys?

I do think that a person can consider SDN (previously known as SDU) when looking for a partner. I have personally seen success stories amongst my friends. They met their partners through the network, fell in love and are now happily married.

However, each time I mentioned it, the people open their eyes wide, and the next reaction is shake their heads. Such is the social stigma about participating in SDN events. Both girls and guys alike.

There was a guy who asked me to introduce any single friends to him. I suggested to him to attend SDN events instead. (People often say... you can do anything but be a matchmaker.) His remark was "Wah, those girls in SDN cannot make it. I don't think I would want to join." I merely shrugged. Frankly speaking, the girls who join SDN website are getting younger. Much as I hate to admit, they are getting pretty too. So... what is it that they "cannot make it"?

Another example would be that, during a gathering amongst ex-colleagues, when I mentioned that I attended one of SDN events before, an ex-colleague opened her eyes really wide! Another ex-colleague piped in to say that some of the events at SDU (actually, the name has been changed for nearly a year) are really expensive! Actually, there are other events that are affordable and the membership to SDN is free.

In my opinion, the social stigma associated with dating agencies in Singapore is uncalled for. Although the purpose of it is to help matchmake singles together, I view it as a network of young people and a ready pool of friends. You don't have to get hitched to the first guy you meet there... but you have just opened up the options for yourself.

So... why not?

Mood of the day (1)

The Chinese New Year mood is infectious. Practically every shop you go into is playing related songs.

I wish that Singapore can be like China. 1 week of public holiday just for the Chinese New Year. But of course, that's just wishful thinking on my part.

It's a rainy day today. While I sit here blogging and relaxing, I wish that the night will not end. Not that it's a moment to remember. But the rain always gives me this kind of feeling. A calm that sets me apart from the troubles at work, in life and others. Well, being out in the rain is definitely not the type of feeling I want. But sitting at home with the rain just in sight, this is the calm that I rarely feel in busy Singapore.

Ever thought of why my blog is named drizzz (whether an old alias or new alias)?

You are right if you are thinking about a drizzle.

Answer to the puzzle!

With a record time of 25 minutes, my lao gong solved my puzzle!

That's the answer above~ ^_^

Puzzle

A puzzle for my lao gong to solve...


Clues:
1. It's a personalised message.
2. There are 9 words in the phrase.
3. There are 22 alphabets in the phrase.
4. The answer will only be disclosed upon request.

Happy 2011 - Topic to start off the new year

If I were to ask you for 10 words to describe what new year brings to your mind, what are they?

Party? Romance? Booze?

To start off the new year, I shall blog on an interesting topic that came across my mind on 1st Jan (but didn't have the motivation to blog until now).

Should you have a first date on a New Year's Eve?

Unlike a first date on any other day, a first date on a New Year's Eve is different due to the significance of the day. The beginning to a new year.

The advantages of having a first date on a New Year's Eve are:
1. Built in excitement
The atmosphere everywhere on New Year's Eve and the anticipation of the countdown at midnight is contagious. This helps to give a good start on the first date.

2. Built in conversation starters
Do you have any New Year's resolutions? What was last year like for you? What, if anything, would you do differently?

These are the topics that can be used to start a conversation on a New Year's Eve, breaking the awkwardness of a first date.

3. Everyone is a social butterfly
A few drops of booze is enough to get a person to loosen up and become a social butterfly. People you interact with will most likely be in an upbeat and friendly mood as they look to the future with hope and promise (or possibly the end of the holiday season!)

So... what are the disadvantages?

1. The chance for disaster to occur
On such a special day, the expectations of the date would be pretty high. Its not uncommon to see everyone jumping for joy and hugging their friends when the clock strikes 12. Imagine yourself in a scenario whereby you are standing rigidly beside your date while the rest of the crowd are partying around you. I definitely don't want to be in this situation.

2. Interacting with drunk people/other people you don't usually interact with
There are many cases of unreported molest cases during countdown parties, an example is at this link. Well, this girl might be asking for it considering her attire. However, haven't we heard of people spraying form on Orchard Roads and taking the chance to conduct such molests?

The worst case scenario is your date getting molested and thinks that you were the pervert!

3. The date has to last until at least midnight
On any other night, if things aren't going well, you can cut your losses and call it a day, but on New Year's Eve, the expectation is that you will still be together after the bewitching hour!

To conclude the post, I found a poll done by online at link:

Apparently, a first date on a New Year's Eve is not a good idea afterall.